She live streamed her home water birth, she got sued by another blogger for abusing DMCA laws, she’s tangled on twitter with actual real working feminist academics, she’s attempted to shame the fat acceptance community, while proclaiming herself a public health scholar, she’s insulted the autistic community and she’s publicly proclaimed grad school to be harder than cancer.
And she will not apologize for her mental illness.
She is pretty much, the worst/best train wreck the web has to offer. If you’ve been unlucky enough to stumble upon her lunacy, its all but impossible to look away.
She runs a subscription only blog, behind a paywall, which up until this weekend, I was a paid member subscriber. I also happened to frequent a Facebook page called Banned By the Feminist Breeder. She is notorious for banning anyone who disagrees with her. She is rather prone to polarizing issues, so she uses her self proclaimed “ban hammer” pretty often and this page has a bit of a following on Facebook.
She bans pretty much everyone who doesn’t agree with her.
Anyway, this weekend she asked her paying blog subscribers to link their Facebook profiles, to their membership profiles on her site. In her words, to smoke out “stalker trolls.”
I think she meant people like me. People who pay her membership fee but, still find occasion to snark.
I do not consider myself a troll, at all. I’ve certainly never stalked this woman. I mean there’s no need to stalk, she literally posts every single thing that has ever happened to her, on her hot ass mess of a Facebook Page.
I will cop to hate reading her dumb ass blog. Over the years I’ve been following her online presence, its been entertaining, like train wreck. I’ve seen her go on and off of psych meds at least twice, I’ve seen a couple of nervous breakdowns, lawsuits, twitter beefs, once she even called herself a strong black woman with red hair and white skin and then attempted to convince black twitter that she was actually not a total racist.
I will admit to reading her for the shit show that she is.
She’s Dooce crazy, like before Dooce got all super boring and shit.
Anyway, since she like insisted that I verify my identify, for the privilege of paying 3.99 a month to read her mindless drivel, I canceled my reoccurring payment through PayPal. My payment came out automatically on May 15. I canceled on May 29, I think. Well, for some reason, I guess, maybe because I’m a troll, my access to my subscription was revoked as soon as I canceled, a whole two weeks before the period for which I’d paid ended.
OK. Fine. Whatever.
I didn’t really care all that much, but money is money, so I opened a claim with PayPal for a prorated refund, to which I am pretty sure I’m entitled.
Can you imagine what happened next?
Little Miss I’m-withdrawing-from-my-psych-meds went ballistic. In spite of her debilitating brain zaps, from not being on her meds, she managed to track me down on twitter and start harassing me. She found an old twitter account of mine and began lambasting me.
Her first tweet? “Found you, PYSCHO.”
seriously awkward, because up until this point, I had never had any contact with this woman.
Yes, I subscribed to her lame ass blog. I’ll admit that. But aside from occasionally snarking her on BBTFB, and asking PayPal for a prorated refund. I NEVER. AND I mean NEVER. interacted in any way with this crazy pants.
Her rant went on and on for a while. Its still up on twitter. check it out.
So when she got tired of pointing her rage in my direction, she went and found my husband’s twitter account. (!)
the woman accusing me of being a “stalker troll” found me and then my husband and tweeted him!
and then she friggin emailed him. SHE EMAILED MY HUSBAND. BECAUSE I’M A STALKER. I guess that was her Feminist way of letting him know he should control his woman…?
She later bragged on Facebook about knowing where he worked. (um, WTF, stalker!) A couple of her super creepy fan girls, mentioned something about sending us mail, because you know, that’ll show us, and pizza. I guess implying, or threatening that they have our address.
as if this wasn’t enough…
The next thing she did was make a meme about “stalker trolls” using my personal information, my first name AND my maiden name (that she only had access to because she’s a PayPal seller.)
I’ve got a feeling there are some TOS violations, right there. I don’t know, you tell me.
Keeping it as classy, as usual, she made sure to include a picture of my kid on her little meme.
It gets creepier still because over the last couple of days I’ve noticed a huge surge in traffic to my tiny, essentially defunct blog. Apparently, The Feminist Breeder, safely behind her paywall, shared as much of my personal information as she possibly could.
This would be her blog post where she basically doxes, or shares as much of my personal info with as many strangers as possible:
So why am I sharing all of this? I need this to be known. I need this to heard. There is this histrionic, narcissistic, mentally unstable blogger who recently went cold turkey off her psych meds, who is spending her time stalking and fucking harassing me and my husband. And its affecting me deeply. Put yourself in my shoes.